Sunday, May 11, 2008

It's Official

Not having my own computer sucks a whole lotta' booty.

I'm going to have a friend of mine take a look at it, but he just got back from a long vacation so I don't want to thrust it at him 5 seconds after he gets home (I save that sentiment for my husband, thankyouverymuch).

I will say that I have been getting a lot more done around the house during the day without the distraction of the internet. Maybe this laptop death was a good thing.

Yesterday I started training to be a rape crisis volunteer. It was an all day training session, and I felt like someone had kicked me in the stomach by the time 4:30 rolled around. I'm not complaining. I kind of expected to feel emotionally exhausted by this venture.

I'm glad I finally got signed up to do this. It's something I thought about back when I was in college, but somehow never found the time to get it done. It's kind of sad that I didn't think I could fit it into my schedule then, but somehow have found the time now that I have a real adult life thing going on.

In a way, I am glad that I didn't volunteer back then. I think I was way too self-centered and lost to be of any help to anyone. Now that I have a few (OK, more than a few) years on me, I am more equipped to handle what I am about to do.

We live in a world where some men still feel it alright to use their inherent social stature over women for carnal gain. Where "no" can mean "maybe" or, sadly, "yes".

We live in a world where children, the elderly and the disabled are preyed upon as "easy targets" of sexual assault and rape.

We live in a world where young women are told that their worth is calculated in direct correlation to how men rate her desirability.

What does this say about us?

I know I can't save the world. Unfortunately, along with those "years of experience" I've racked up, I seem to have lost the genuine idealism I had as a young adult. However, I can do my part.

And it feels really good.

7 comments:

Phil said...

Thanks for doing your part.

Happy Mother's Day!

Earth Muffin said...

That's quite an endeavor for you to take on. I think you'll be great at it! Happy Mother's Day!

jimmycity said...

A VERY awesome thing to do!

SkylersDad said...

Good for you for helping out, I have an old friend that was raped and she has never been the same.

Grant Miller said...

Wow. I'm impressed. Just hearing those stories must be difficult.

Happy belated mother's day!

Chris said...

Here via CPW.

This is a very good thing that you are undertaking. I work in social services and appreciate what you are doing. Just remember your boundaries between work and home.

Earth Muffin said...

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